Let’s say you are sitting in traffic or are stopped at a light when all of a sudden you hear a loud, long car honk.

What is the first thing that comes into your head?

a. “Who cares, whatever.”
b. “Haha! Some jerk did something wrong!”
c. “Haha! Some jerk got angry!”
d. “Wha-Wha-What did I do?!?”

I always assume it’s my fault. I don’t know why. It’s a gut reaction and since I’ve recognized it, I see it in other areas of my life and I can’t help but wonder… Why am I so paranoid? It’s stressful! I want to start living a more blissful life of blaming others.