I was wrong. Mr. Freakish built wrote me… a piss off email:

Donna,
While I think that you are a great person and have alot to offer, I didn’t feel a “click”. So, I’m glad we met, but I think we are both going to have to continue the match search…
Best of luck!
Joe

Wow. I am alternately, hurt, surprised, happy and relieved. Of course, I didn’t feel a “click” but I would have gone out with him again had he asked. It is a good thing that he had the balls to write, very few men do. And at least he didn’t lead me on. It is for the best, there really wasn’t anything there… but why do I feel so terrible? Maybe it’s not him but the 100.00 eHarmony fee.