The Smoking Gun: Joe Millionaire” finalist starred in bondage and fetish flicks Since I have expressed my dismay with Joe Bachelor, I thought I would confess a twisted wish. I want him to choose Sarah. This way, when he takes her aside and he confesses that he is not a milliionaire but a blue collar worker, she can say, “That is okay honey. I too have a confession, I star in kinky bondage and fetish films…. do you still love me?”